What is love? We heard it is Affection, Care, Attachment. it is also called an eternal feeling that never ends. It’s beautiful. amazing gives meaning to the life. It’s called a connection of soul. But is it really So. Honestly NOT.

 You may feel things are more beautiful and amazing when you feel like you are in love. Because we are designed this way. It may contain affection, attachment and care, but it is not something that gives meaning to your life. If you feel that way it means either you are obsessed with the person, or you do not find yourself worthy enough. Or you don’t have any dream, any goal in your life, Or you don’t have capability to achieve it, Or just scared of standing alone for yourself. Also, when people fail to achieve what they want from life or not satisfied with their life because of certain reasons. try to find happiness in another person and when they meet someone who make them feel good, they fall for him/her and got so dependent that they started to believe there is no life nothing without him/her.

Just like the people who believe in religion thinks and believe there no life without it. they are so dependent that they don’t even use their minds and blindly believe everything written in religious script or told them by self-claimed Gurus. They think It, is the solution of everything and the way of a happy and prosperous life. If they follow it, they will get happiness and what they want in life. The people who fall for someone think or feel the same way that only this can bring happiness in life and there is no life without him/her.

As I mentioned earlier it also called an eternal feeling that never ends, that’s also a lie. It ends like everything sooner or later, one way or another unless it is turnout into an obsession. It is also publicized as a connection of souls. It sounds beautiful. But physicality and sexual desire is always in the center of it. It revolves around these aspect. Attachment, care, affection are the things that comes secondary. It’s all fine in its own way.

But the worst thing about love is people who fall in love act in a very similar way like people with deep religious believe or blinded by religion. As they use religion an excuse for all their disgusting act or behavior and also to justify their immoral deeds and exploit others in every possible way or get exploited in the name of religion and stay silent. 

Just like these people, people who are in love exploit people around themself who have attachment and cares for them. Sometimes they make their life a hell with their selfish or improper behavior. And they do all that knowing the fact it is going to hurt or harm. And then justify everything I in love and I did this for the love. Sometimes they reach to extreme and do murders, kidnapping, rape when they see someone as an impossible obstacle. 

Such cheap quates that you have heard, try glorify such acts.

“There is nothing right or wrong when you are in love.”

“Everything is fair in love and war.”

                                                          —– Twilight Haze —–